Being That Woman In Black
Ever felt the need to just be nice to someone to show them that you care and they come back to you everytime and you are not even close to them and share part of your life and tell people that he/she is your friend lol. Yeah that's been a Woman who really abides by the rules she was taught by her parents.
You know that women should be respectful, groomed and be good communicators and sit properly but that applied to your future spouse in a way not to everybody.
It's time to be that women in Black. It's time to give power to you.
Here is what I gathered:
Before you do anything put God First
1. Have confidence in whatever you do.
Take up challenges and tell your brain that we gotta do it. Say what you feel and don't be apologetic. When you say no to something you don't like just say it, don't filter it.
2. Don't be everyone's cup of tea
Okay sometimes I go beyond for people to show that I'm caring and to prove something but one thing I figured is nobody cares and you can't please everyone.
3. Don't give in to opinions
People always have something to say about your dressing, your hairstyle, the way you talk, the way you walk and a whole lot more but that's their opinion. We can't be the same. We are unique in our own way.
"Takatozvarwa kwakasiyana"(we were born different)
4. Speak your mind
Ever wished you said what you wanted to say when a person is gone. I have done it a lot of times but now it's getting better. You want to tell a person that what he /she did was uncalled for...go ahead because it will happen again.
It's a peace of mind when you know that you are not defined by someone else.
Be That Woman In Black😜
#lockdown
#thoughts
You know that women should be respectful, groomed and be good communicators and sit properly but that applied to your future spouse in a way not to everybody.
It's time to be that women in Black. It's time to give power to you.
Here is what I gathered:
Before you do anything put God First
1. Have confidence in whatever you do.
Take up challenges and tell your brain that we gotta do it. Say what you feel and don't be apologetic. When you say no to something you don't like just say it, don't filter it.
2. Don't be everyone's cup of tea
Okay sometimes I go beyond for people to show that I'm caring and to prove something but one thing I figured is nobody cares and you can't please everyone.
3. Don't give in to opinions
People always have something to say about your dressing, your hairstyle, the way you talk, the way you walk and a whole lot more but that's their opinion. We can't be the same. We are unique in our own way.
"Takatozvarwa kwakasiyana"(we were born different)
4. Speak your mind
Ever wished you said what you wanted to say when a person is gone. I have done it a lot of times but now it's getting better. You want to tell a person that what he /she did was uncalled for...go ahead because it will happen again.
It's a peace of mind when you know that you are not defined by someone else.
Be That Woman In Black😜
#lockdown
#thoughts
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