The Solution Provider Dilemma

We hear women saying I need a man who can provide solution when i have a problem but when men are solution providers you hear statements such as:

          "He thinks he can fix everything in the world"

          "He is a Mr Know it all"

I'm just going to group this into two that is living with a man who can provide solutions and living with a man who cannot provide solutions. 

Starting with a man who cannot provide solutions. In Zimbabwe women do not want a man who tells them: "Saka todii" (what do we do) when they have a problem. It's like dealing with a guy with no direction or having a guy who just makes you feel good and doesn't really have a future. I mean you should show your woman you got a brain lol. 

Here is a twist, women crave for these solution providers but when the guy is having a problem they are the first people to say "Saka todii". I'm one of those people lol. I would say , "Ncaww its okay, you will be fine." Carrying someone's problems and proposing a solution its not easy because some say that I got my own problems to solve. 

Living with a man who can provide solutions is like heaven they say. The angels that we are busy looking for in this world of relationships, the men we want to call gentlemen...talking about building empires. 

But men who are solution providers tend to be control freaks lol (that's why men are so terrified). They are called Mr Fix It, Mr Know it all...

My thoughts 

To men

If a woman says she needs a solution provider she doesn't mean you are supposed to show that you are the man when it comes to that certain problem. 

To ladies 

We should create a favourable environment for men to give us solutions because trust me no men wants to be called Mr Fix It...those "saka todii" statements will reign forever lol