Can Fornication Be Avoided In A Modern Relationship

Happy new year to all the bloggers out there.

So I thought I should start with a dramatic topic to light up the 2020 mood. I know that everyone is busy writing their new years resolutions and thinking about making it the best but lets just take the time to think about fornication...something you don't normally include on that new years resolution list.

Okay fornication is defined as sexual intercourse between people who are not married to each other and going deeper into the society we hear people talking about kissing, touching and all of that because that person is not your husband or wife and what he/ she has is not yours(physical terms). 

Looking at this definition it makes you think about the relationships you had...I mean we are talking about trillion kisses, the thrill that comes when somebody holds you. Its irresistible. 

I have two factors that lead to fornication or that made us the millennial feel its normal to kiss somebody or touch somebody as a sign of love before you get married. 

1. Television 

When I was growing up I watched a lot of television and when it came to this romance stuff when the guy asks a girl out its either he wows her with a kiss or showers her with gifts everyday which is a different case for some Zimbabwean dudes lol. Watching that all that time I got the impression that when you are dating someone there is that element of intimacy to showcase true love leading to something way more beautiful(wedding). So clearly that made everything seem normal when a person kisses or holds their boyfriend or girlfriend in an intimate manner or romantically 

2. Social media

well this is the bread and butter of every millennial. you see on social media people publicising their relationship and getting nice comments such as you guys are such a nice couple, you are goals or you inspire me to look for my one and only and when you check most of these couples are not even married. This also affects people in terms of the choice of people they date or get into relationship with...you start hearing statements like I want a boyfriend who posts me on social media kissing and showing our love to the world lol( just an example). these statements are normally said in the heart. 

These two factors mould our choices in life and most times we end up choosing the pathway that leads us to fornication because the fairytale relationship includes that hence we can't really avoid fornication in a modern relationship.

We have other crazy branches that come with fornication as well...yeah we are talking about the no strings attached, the frenefits. The no strings attached is normally done by people who had enough of relationships that do not work or people who just have that extra thrill in life. They have that go to guy when they want to be satisfied or when they just want to be adventurous. Moving onto frenefits they just bail each other out when it comes to their desires.

Okay apparently there is this thing about colours that can help when it comes to this fornication stuff. they are four colours namely blue, red, yellow and green

Blue- family oriented 

Yellow- free spirited, wild

Green- reserved, analytical 

Red- intolerant

Okay blues get along with reds and yellows get along with greens. I think this can help in terms of understanding each other and making decision such as not fornicating. his is just food for thought. 

To stop fornication you need a whole makeover and strong faith and accept the fact that your boyfriend or girlfriend can only be greeted with a holy kiss lol and no touching because it will definitely lead to sex which is a bond for married people. 

this can be one hell of a resolution if you ask me but hard to execute.