Blurred Lines: What Is A Real Man

Contestant 1
This guy tells you he is a real man because he fills the traditional male role; he supports his family financially while his wife cares for the children and the home. As long as he provides a roof over their heads and food for them to eat, he is fulfilling his duty as a husband and father. This man doesn’t consider his wife as his equal.
Contestant 2
He is the real man because he has a culturally progressive role, he shares household and child rearing responsibility with his wife while they both pursue their careers. He thinks his wife is his equal.
Contestant 3
He is the real man because he has been freed from the male stereotypes and has decided to take on the nurturing role of taking care for the children and home while his wife goes to work. He considers his wife equal to himself or maybe even better, since she has more compassionate, sensitive nature than he does.
It’s pretty nice how everyone is attracted to one attribute of these three types of hunks.

There is no proper definition anymore of a real man because men are going beyond to please their partners even though it’s against the manual of being a man. Male stereotypes are getting mixed up and men just don’t know what to do anymore to please a woman.
Looking at how women are being empowered these days by organisations whose sole purpose is to build a woman who is independent and basically run the world. Let’s take for example a man asks you out for dinner and because your mind is empowered, you want to pay your own bill and pull out your own chair.

Men are being clouded with new ways to love because women nowadays want more attention, take romantic walks, picnics moving them from the traditional ways of making a woman happy by being their King Provider and back then that was the only romantic thing. Women even gossip with their men now, there are no more boundaries.  Let’s not forget how women want to be told ‘I love you’ after every five minutes.

Moving on to pleasure we find women reading books that tell them that you should give your man your diamond after 90 days which is not a bad thing lol if done in a manner that is admirable. Women have realised their power and men have to respect that although they feel connected to you when they have sex with you somehow. But some do feel connected you without it lol.

Have traditional ways expired or still remain but they are not as powerful?

#LOCKDOWN

#thoughts

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